Oh, god, what did you put In this coffee ?
Why, it's no good ?
No, it's great.
Is there, like, A vanilla in there ?
It's a hazelnut. Mmm.
I put an actual hazelnut.
Yumbo-- i was gonna say, "Yumbo mcgillicutty."
What is a-- ?
When you were little, You used to say--
Any time you liked the way Something tasted,
You used to say, "Yumbo mcgillicutty."
That wasn't me, dad.
Let me see some i.D.
Hey, we gotta do something About this situation here.
I hear you.
This is, like, The fourth day in a row
That it's taken me 25 minutes
To find a pair of socks That match.
And you know i love My thin, black socks.
They fit snug.
I can never find a pair That matches.
Well, do what i do. What is that ?
I go buy singles.
They sell those In a big bin.
I just spend too much time Looking for stuff.
What i suggest is We have grace in, full-time,
Every day of the week.
No, i can't afford to pay Somebody full-time
To come in here.
I think people do that, They have live-ins.
I don't know, Grace is a--
She has a distinct odor. Yeah.
That-- once a week Is fine with me.
Dad, that's not nice.
You know, julie was telling Me about these people
Whose livelihood is Actually coming into your home
And redesigning Your closet space.
Well, not my space, then.
I mean, they can do it To the other space,
But my space Is well plotted out.
Well, i think you might--
You know, It's like a fresh start.
You know, maybe since mom Has left,
This place Has gone to hell.
We do need a woman's touch.
Well, maybe just grace Isn't enough.
I think that If we want this place clean,
You gotta remarry.
That would be The least romantic proposal
A guy could make.
"You have so many wonderful Qualities and appliances."
"Will you take--"
"Will you take your time with The living room, please ?"
I had to put my dog petey To sleep.
Jeez, i'm sorry To hear that, elayne.
People don't know How to express
Their feelings, you know ?
I think america really Needs greeting cards,
Because no one knows What to say.
Everyone says The same thing.
"You put him to sleep ? Oh, was he sick ?"
"Oh, no, he was just getting On my nerves."
That's... That's...
I mean, i did everything, I took him everywhere.
I had such An expensive vet.
You know, i mean, I go to pick the dog up,
And the new, young girl Behind the counter,
She says, "$3,000 !"
The whole waiting room Looks up.
The woman says, "What did you have done ?"
I said, "well, apparently The animal bought a car
After i dropped him off !"
I used to wish my dog Could talk.
I used to dream about His different voices.
And then i realized: He's a dog.
If he gets The power of speech,
This is what you're gonna Have to listen to
For the left of your life.
"Throw the ball, throw The ball, throw the ball,
"Throw the ball, Throw the ball,
Throw the ball."
"I threw it."
"Oh, throw it again, Throw it again,
Throw the ball, Throw the--"
"Look, don't say 'Ball' again."
"Okay.
Cookie, cookie, cookie cookie, Cookie, cookie, cookie..."
You see some scientist Spent 20 years in the lab
Inventing ice cream For dogs ?
It's on the market, frosty paws !
He made it taste Like vanilla.
Hardly selling at all !
Would have made it taste Like doody.
Dogs would be robbing Stores with guns !
You said "doody".
So these people will come in And actually build closets ?
Well, they build closets.
They also have Preexisting drawers
And shelving units That they sell you.
Mmm-hmm. It's a scam.
All right, good.
But some of them are Cheaper than others.
I can handle this.
This is a project that I'd be happy to do.
Could you get a list Of names of companies
That do this kind of work ?
Get some estimates ?
You know, Maybe have some people
Come in and look At the space ?
They're listed In the yellow pages,
And also you can call julie
And she can tell you the name Of the place she used.
All right, you know, I can do this on my own.
You know, i don't need Your help on it.
That's what i'm hoping.
All right, Who do i call again ?
Julie ?
You should try that.
Yeah ? Maybe you should.
I think there's certain things That i don't wanna find.
They're better off lost.
You know, things like My 32-inch jeans.
Well, your legs are Still 32 inches long.
Okay, it's the button At the top.
Wear 'em sideways.
It's kind of--
It's like an archival thing, Though, isn't it ?
When i put those on And the belly hangs over,
I don't think archives, I think "fatto".
You leave 'em hanging.
It's hanging, All right.
Oh, yeah !
You know what ?
A lot of women Actually like
A little bit of girth In a man.
Really ? I ain't met one yet.
Julie ? Back me up on this.
Is that true ?
Julie, i'm looking For your support here.
Should i look further ?
Well, stan-- What about my paunch ?
I can't, I can't answer that.
Come on !
A guy who, with a little bit Of a pot belly--
It says something About the guy,
That he's relaxed about The fat slob he's become.
Yeah. Yeah.
And women like that.
Would you say that you use The storage space
In your apartment wisely ?
I'd say yes.
The reason i ask is because
I'm thinking about Having a guy--
Paying some guy to come in
And redesign the closet space In my apartment.
Really ? Yep.
I mean, i think-- Yeah, sure.
Well, because i can Never find anything,
And i think it's just An organizational problem,
And i can't fix it.
You can't ?
No, because i-- you know, It's a jungle there.
It really is.
I've gone into my closet
And come out hungry And confused and cold--
Dehydrated.
Well, good for you.
I don't mean to be bending Your ear like this.
No, it's very interesting.
So how are we doing For space here ?
Not too good.
You know, We have a closet here
Where i put my coat, Where you put your coat. Yeah.
And what's that ?
What is in the carton That says "sweaters" ?
What is that stuff ?
Well, it's My winter clothes.
And what are those, Your skis ?
( Beatboxing )
Mike rowe.
I'm here to see dr. Katz.
Could you Take a seat, please ?
( Beatboxing )
What do you want, The "bossa nova" ?
( Beatboxing )
Am i blousing okay ?
I guess, mike.
I'm not sure i'm the expert On the subject.
I'm just feeling bad About myself.
You know, there's This thing that happens,
When you put on weight
And you haven't seen friends And family in awhile,
They don't know how to react.
They just kind of Stare at you.
They're like, "Hey, look at you !"
"No, you look good."
"Looks good on you."
"Not a lot of people Can pull that off.
But, you, You look great."
It's like you did it On purpose.
People can't always find The right thing to say
For every situation.
That's a very tricky area You're talking about.
You're vulnerable, And... You're very large.
Tell me about your dad, You never talk about him.
My dad is one of these Mr. Fix-it guys.
He's always gotta be building Something, creating.
8:00 sunday morning,
He'll be locked down In the basement.
He's there With the power tools.
"Eeeeehhh !"
"Dad, what are you doing ?"
"I'm making breakfast !"
"Eeeehhh !"
My sister got married.
We had to lead him Into the church
With a broken toaster.
"Come on, dad, Yeah, this way.
Come on."
My dad's a golfer-- Well, not really.
He watches on t.V.
Takes the same amount Of energy.
You get that sweat Going on that vinyl seat
After, like, nine hours.
But this is what I learned from that:
Anyone can be A golf announcer.
All you have to do is use That voice you use
When you Call in sick at work.
( Calmly ) "I won't be coming in today.
"I have a golf game To announce.
I'll be in tomorrow."
( Coughing )
I'm just wondering--
What if you're A golf announcer
And you wanna get out Of work ?
You know, there are so many Elvis impersonators out there.
Why would you go into Such a competitive area ?
See, i wouldn't do Any of the songs.
I would just do, "Thank you very much !"
But i'd break it up, You know,
'Cause i know people Would get bored,
But i'd make it exciting.
I would do, like, elvis Picking up his dry cleaning.
"Thank you, Thank you very much."
Elvis picking up his food At burger king.
"Thank you very much, This is the large, right ?
Thank you."
Elvis working in A movie theater.
"Thank you, cinema three, Thank you very much."
No more ?
I don't do drugs.
I don't do drugs Because of the films
They showed me in high school To scare me.
I don't know If you've seen these,
But these are the ones--
They're made in, Like, 1969,
Hosted by sonny bono. Right.
If you haven't seen the film, There's a kid at a party.
He has, like, One hit of marijuana.
For the rest of his life, He's a basket case.
He's gonna Hallucinate forever now.
He's like--
( Beatboxing )
See, the music is What's flipping him out.
"Agh !"
( Beatboxing )
Hey, dad, status report.
So have you Set up appointments ?
I set up a whole bunch.
Oh, great, great.
clutterers anonymous Is coming. Okay.
closet case, Coming today.
space case, Also coming today.
Oh, great.
closet culture Is not coming.
They went out of business.
Oh, that's too bad.
"This number has been Disconnected."
Did you try clutter bug ?
clutter bug's Coming tomorrow. Okay.
Coming also tomorrow: mess america,
Which i think Is a non-profit. Right.
And i also Called rick's deli.
rick's deli ?
That was one Of the wrong numbers.
Okay, so what did you Find out ?
You know, this is A little more complicated
Than i first suspected.
I mean, you gotta Fill out a survey--
Oh really ?
And a whole evaluation About how you use your space.
It gets pretty personal. Yeah.
Can i just quickly ask you A couple of questions, dad ? Absolutely.
What is the first thing that You reach for in the morning ?
A six pack, An ice-cold six pack.
You got a big problem.
( Chuckling )
We're gonna get you A walk-in fridge
Right there in the room, And they will take care of that.
The first thing i reach for In the morning, really,
I guess, is my glasses.
Your glasses-- Need a closet for them ?
Ben, i will See you tonight.
One more, one more. Okay, go ahead, quick.
Do you want a warranty With that closet ?
Is it a lifetime warranty ?
And if it is, I'm 49.
I don't wanna Pay a full lifetime.
Okay, so have you heard back From them yet ?
The woman, the consultant, Is coming over at 3:00.
Okay, i suggest you straighten Up the house a little bit.
Well, isn't that her job ? You know, that's why--
No, no, no, because i Don't want her to think
That we live like pigs.
Dad, i'm gonna show her How we live.
Yeah, but don't show her the Part where we live like pigs.
I won't let her in, I'll do it all in the hall.
Well, then straighten up The hall.
But i think everybody wants To have a good relationship.
You wanna give The other person
What they want, But the trouble is:
What does anybody want ?
I mean, What do women want ?
Women want someone--
I think-- Women want someone.
We just want someone, We'll do the work.
Just give us someone.
See, i don't think it's fair To generalize
About what people want Based on gender.
I know what men want, That i know.
Men wanna be really, really, Really close to someone
Who will leave them alone.
Dr. Katz's office.
Hey, it's ben. Hi.
Have you ever, like,
Completely redone Your apartment,
You know, to organize ?
Well, yeah, once in awhile.
'Cause you strike me As the kind of person
Who doesn't organize well.
Why do you say that ?
Just 'cause there's Always papers on your desk.
I'm very organized, I'm a secretary.
Papers should be cleared.
A desk should Always be cleared off.
Really ? Who says that ?
The closet people.
Well, the closet people Don't know desks.
That's like A new expression.
The thing about Breaking up--
When you get older,
You just don't have That kind of steam anymore.
You break up When you're young.
You don't care. Sure.
Break up every other day When you're young.
You got energy.
"That's it, ha ! You're lost !"
It's not just energy, You have time.
And you have That very high voice.
Then you break up When you're older.
You go, "oh, that's it.
Can't start shaving my legs Above the knee again."
Hey, laura, do you fold Or ball your socks ?
Ball. Really ?
Can i go now ?
Not yet, i just have a couple More questions here.
What's the first thing You reach for in the morning ?
You can be, You know, specific.
The snooze button.
All right.
Where do you keep Your, uh...
Your delicates ?
Bye, ben.
You wanna hear the Childhood daredevil stories
My mother tells company ?
"You know something ?
"Once a glass broke On the kitchen floor.
"Not one week later,
My daughter was back in there With no shoes on."
Is that true, elayne ?
I'm not kidding.
My parents broke A glass in 1954.
They sold the house In 85.
My mother Warned the new owners.
She said, "i think i got All the big pieces,
"But there could be slivers.
"You don't know, You can't know.
"You don't, you can't,
You don't, You can't, you don't."
So how did it go ?
It was okay, It was a little rough.
I was nervous. Yeah.
You know, as i always am.
Meeting a new woman ? Face-to-face meetings.
So i think i panicked.
It was halfway through The meeting--
I ran out and locked Myself in my room.
She knew So much about closets,
It made me nervous.
Yeah, you felt like you Were in over your head.
She had this attitude
Like we needed A lot of closet space.
Well, that's Just their pitch.
They wanna sell you Their services.
Well, she was good at it.
She made it sound Like we were--
There are desperate Times here.
No one's gonna come in In that business and say,
"You guys have it Under control,
You don't need me."
Well, she did say, "I would tell you if i'm lying
About how much closet space You need."
She said that. Yeah.
I mean, Just out of curiosity,
Which closet did She recommend for us ?
Take a look At the brochure here.
Let's say, dad,
You're willing To spend $15,000 ?
We could get the liberace, Which is right here.
Now, take a look At this baby, huh ?
No, this is Not for us, ben.
You don't wanna Have to get dressed up
Just to go to your closet.
Well, actually, We don't have to get
Some of the high-priced Closet spaces.
This is a Blueprint of what she-- Ben !
She said that What she could do here
Was actually convert Your bedroom space
Into a walk-in closet.
Well, that would make sense If we had an extra bedroom.
Well, you gotta sleep On the couch. Yeah.
So let's be realistic here.
I think i'm willing to spend As much as $1,200.
Did she show you The $1,200 version ?
Let me turn to page cheap.
This is the bottom Of the line.
It's a box.
And you throw your stuff In it
And you jam it in 'Til it's full
And then you Try and close it.
Let's get two of those And call it a day.
Done.
Wait, ben, i'm not annoyed.
I just want you to explain To me one more time
Where i would hang up a suit.
You know, I can hang up a jacket here,
But it gets squished.
You know, dad--
Where do i put My shoes ?
You can't put 'em in here.
This is a very efficient use Of space
If we're rodents or something,
I mean, if we collected Little trinkets of things.
And who labeled this "left Cufflink, right cufflink" ?
That's all part Of the deal.
It all comes labeled ?
Complaints, complaints.
Well, there's no room.
There's no space for me To hang up
A pair of pants in here.
Dad, well, why are you Yelling at me ?
They did it.
Am i yelling ? Yeah.
No, this is not yelling.
I'm just demanding An explanation.
That's all.
Don't demand at me.
Am i demanding ? I meant to yell.
Ben !
You're not mad at me.
I think you're mad At yourself for--
Raising you To be such a fool ?
Well, that was part of it.
You know, You raised me
And then you made this Big mistake with the closets.
I'm gonna stop the check.
I'm gonna try and stop The check.
I don't think It's too late to do that.
Dad, you don't wanna deal With that closet company.
No ? Why is that ?
They have a legal team. Yeah ?
I think there's a lot of stuff That you've accumulated here
That's really ready to go.
Well, i'll tell you what: Let's play a little game.
You pick something up.
I'll close my eyes, Just say what it is.
I won't even look at it, So i don't get too attached.
Just tell me what it is And i'll say "yea" or "nay".
All right.
This shoebox filled With 1969's tax returns.
Yea.
Keep it ?
I forget What "yea" means.
I feel stupid, I thought i was a smart--
I've got a computer.
I wrote an apology note To my v.C.R.
For ever thinking It was difficult.
I mean, the computer--
I don't understand Why i can't do anything.
And you know what ? Yeah ?
You find someone In this country
Who can print out An envelope.
Okay, maybe The fifth envelope,
But you have to kill four To get to the fifth one.
The first one comes out--
"Ooh, it's on the flap ! Oh, it's upside down.
"Oh, it's on the back, Whoa, it's inside.
How did that happen ? Inside !"
( Beatboxing )
"Thank you very much."
Thank you.
I'm losing all my hair. Yeah.
No offense, doc.
None taken.
Being bald, though--
I think the only time It bothers me
Is if i become A reference point.
You know what i mean ? Well--
Well, let me give you An example.
I was in a restaurant, Some guys are talking.
I can hear 'em.
They go, "joe, you know Where the men's room is ?"
"The men's room ?
"Yeah, you see That bald guy over there ?
"Yeah, the bald guy--"
"Go down To the bald guy.
"Take a left,
And you'll see The fat chinese lady."
She's not always Gonna be there.
But, mike, Let's come back to that.
Tell me again about that Very unpleasant phone call
You had with that woman.
It was one of these Rejection phone calls.
I don't know if You've been through this.
It's this thing where Your throat locks up
During the conversation.
So i'm on the phone, I'm talking to her.
I'm going, "no, we met At the party on friday.
"I had, like, the blue shirt, The yellow tie.
"Right, the balding...
"No, i just thought maybe If you wanted to get together,
"We can go out and see a drink, Have a movie, kind of--
"I mean-- No, no, good for you.
"No, moving out of The country's nice.
"No, that's a good thing.
"No, i just figured I'd call
"'Cause we had A good time at the party.
"I figured give you a ring And say, 'what the heck.'
"Get together.
"But, no, good for you, Yeah.
( Squeaky voice ) "No, good luck to you.
Okay, all right, then. Bee-bee-bee !"
This is not easy stuff To talk about, mike.
And i'm proud of you.
"Thank you, Thank you very much."
That sounded very good.
That was Very convincing. Thank you.
( Music playing )
And we're gonna have To stop now 'cause...
Our time is up.
"Thank you very much !"